Yesterday, I broke a kitchen glass. Oh, and I also washed my husband’s shoe with his work clothes. HOW DO YOU WASH A SHOE?! Only I would know. Apparently. This is what happens when I wake up and go straight to the laundry room without putting in my contacts or getting a cup of coffee down first. This morning, I forgot to add a vital part to our Keurig coffee maker which turned my nice hot cup of coffee into a murky cup of water and no time to make another cup… on my 5 AM work day. Needless to say, I’m not perfect. Surprise, surprise. Later that evening while my husband and I were getting ready for our double date, I asked him if he thought I was a good wife or not. “Of course, you’re the best.”
I am a wife but my identity and worth isn’t found in that vital & important role. I am a sister, daughter, & friend but my worth doesn’t depend on how “good” of a friend or sister or daughter I am. I am a nanny and a youth leader but my identity isn’t based on those roles. I am the worst of sinners and I tend to be negative at times but those things do not define me.
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Who I am, the essence of Katie, is found in Someone greater than I could ever be. My worth is found in Jesus Christ. HE makes me holy, righteous, & beautiful. He is the One who gives me worth, identity, and purpose. And the amazing part? I did nothing to deserve or earn it.
“For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another. But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life..” Titus 3:3-7
Jesus Christ saved me and you.. not because of works done by me in righteousness but according to His own mercy.
Because of His love for me, I have purpose and worth.
I can rest in that love that gives me identity. I am no longer my own. I was bought by a price by Jesus who paid the price for my sin. My worth is found in what Christ did on the cross. He made me alive by dying for my sin and then conquering it when He arose from that grave. With that declaration of an empty tomb, my soul came alive.
My identity? Yes, I am a wife, sister, daughter, leader, friend.. But because I was saved by God’s great mercy, I am now…
alive eternally & dead to sin {Romans 6:11}
holy {Hebrews 10:10}
righteous {Romans 4:5}
blameless {1 Corinthians 1:8}
free {Galatians 5:1}
whole {Colossians 2:10}
not condemned {Romans 8:1}
LOVED {Romans 8:35}
And YOU are loved!
-Katie
Today, I am linking up with Jenni & Martha Kate again for Wednesday’s Words! Also, this was my 200th blog post! Awesome!
Also linking up with The Artsy Cajun with..
You never cease to amaze me, friend. God speaks so clearly and wonderfully through you and your words. I don’t think I can tell you this quite enough, but my thankfulness for our friendship is immense.
I love you, friend! I am so thankful for our friendship! It is definitely all a gift from God; without Him I am nothing. You know that! Can’t wait until you start posting ;)))
Hi from the link-up!
Loved reading your post today. Have a great rest of the week!
And congrats on your 200th Post!
Yay! So glad that you are here!! Thanks so much & can’t wait to check out your blog! blessings!
hey Brettni! just a little update.. we are moving blogs so check us out at our newly updated http://www.hotteaaandtheemptyseat.blogspot.com
hope to see you there! 🙂
First, congrats on our 200th blog post! Second, thank you so much for linking up with us! Third, I love your encouraging words. It is always a needed reminder for me to remember that my identity is in Christ and that is enough!
Thanks so much, Martha Kate!! I agree; I love when Jesus reminds me -in my mess- that I am His & I am loved! Ah, He is good! Blessings, girl!!
I tend to get stuck in finding my worth in my various titles and things I do, which makes it so easy to fall into the trap of feeling that I am either not enough, or too much. Both are equally destructive, and both are equally untrue. Thank you for this reminder that I am enough simply because He says so!
I love this, Katie! Amen! I constantly need the reminder that my worth is found in Jesus and that’s it! Thank you for the encouragement today! 🙂
Thank you for reading! I’m so thankful for a God who constantly woos us with His awesome love!
Love your blog, btw!
Blessings!
I’m constantly having to remind myself this too! I have to tell myself that I don’t need others to tell me how much I am worth. Thank you for this post! Very positive and motivating.
I am the same way girl! It’s easy to get caught up in the approval from others even people who love us when really we are just called to love Him and He will give us that peace to be content with who we are 🙂 thanks so much for stopping by! Don’t be a stranger 🙂
Xoxo
hey Brittany! just a little update.. we are moving blogs so check us out at our newly updated http://www.hotteaaandtheemptyseat.blogspot.com
hope to see you there! 🙂
Thank you so much for linking up with me for my first Sharing Scripture! This post is so encouraging! I know, I need to be reminded that no matter what I do, it’s all through the grace of God that allows me to be a child of his. Have a great Friday!
Thanks for doing it! I know it’s gonna be a great link up! 🙂 and thank you! You’re so right. It’s not about what we do but what He did for us 🙂 that’s an amazing thing. Have an awesome weekend, new friend!
hey Jessy! just a little update.. we are moving blogs so check us out at our newly updated http://www.hotteaaandtheemptyseat.blogspot.com
hope to see you there! 🙂